Emotional Abuse Test

Do you thing your relationship may need to pass an emotional abuse test? Have you been wondering if your man is acting normally with you or if it could actually be abuse? Do you tell yourself you're overreacting and an emotional abuse test would serve no purpose?

So many women out there will knowingly ignore the emotional abuse they endure on a regular basis. It is waved away and women will even defend their mate, claiming he's just tired, he's just been working too hard, he's just... he's just...

This can all end up blowing up in your face as your shoulders come to no longer be able to hold up the enormous burden of all his emotional abuse. Look into it now and know if you should stick this out or find a true way of fixing the problem.

How are fights resolved?

a. He slams the door and walks away.

b. He'll turn away and ignore me.

c. We talk it out, even if it takes hours.

d. Hearing each other's opinion is important.

Does he apologize for harshly spoken words?

a. Never. He says I deserved everything he had to throw at me.

b. Sometimes, but it is cold and automatic and he'll just turn around and do the same again the next day.

c. Always and he'll do everything he can to better control himself the next time.

d. No need to. He never says anything harsh to me.

How is his sense of humor?

a. He loves to use me as the butt of his jokes and uses every opportunity he can find.

b. No matter what the topic is, he'll always turn and make some crass and insulting joke about me.

c. He's a crack up and always has me laughing with his quirky views of the world.

d. He's a real clown who'll do anything to make me laugh, especially when I'm feeling down.

Is he in the habit of picking fights?

a. Always. I can do everything perfectly, spend hours making sure everything is right, and he'll still find a flaw.

b. We can be talking about the most innocent and inane thing and all of a sudden he'll blow up and make a big deal about a trivial comment I made.

c. He loves a lively banter, especially when it's about politics, but it never turns into a fight.

d. We have our share of disagreements, but it is always a fair discussion and always over a worthy subject.

We all have our bad days and sometimes we can blow up in the face of our partner because we simply can't blow up in anyone else's face and get away with it. But there's a huge difference between coming home and venting out your frustration to your wife and coming home to completely berate and humiliate her.

If you've answered with a lot of As and Bs, you've not passed this emotional abuse test and you should look into getting some help. Every C and D shows you have a normal and healthy romance.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.